change

The saying, “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change” by Dr. Wayne Dyer conveys a very profound message. In life, what we look at is not as important as how we look at it. How we perceive what is going on around us, is what creates our own experience of our reality. It is really an interesting concept that can be very empowering. How we perceive the experiences we are going through is completely up to us. I know that in the moment of the day to day life, it can be very easy to become completely and totally engrossed in our life story. We buy into it and get convinced that our life experience is the only real thing going on. But…if you stop just for a moment to remember that this life experience is just that, an experience, it can change the way you feel about it. Remember, our feelings about the things going on around us is what truly creates our reality. My son in spirit has told me that in his reality, he did not die. The truth is, he is way more alive now that he is back in spirit than when he was here in a body as Jake. In a medium reading I did for a lovely woman recently, her beautiful husband in spirit wanted to talk about a dream visitation he had with his wife. He had told her in the dream visitation that he did not die. This made his wife whom I was doing the reading for angry and confused. I explained to her that he was trying to tell her that in his reality, he did not die and he wanted her to know that he continues to exist in spirit. He was showering her with his love and was very much “alive” on the other side. It was a beautiful confirmation that our loved ones have not gone anywhere, they have simply changed.